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In Choose Greatness, Gary Chapman, the author of The 5 Love Languages, partners with his mentee, Clarence Shuler to outline “11 Wise Decisions That Brave Young Men Make”. These wise decisions range from “Choose to Seek Knowledge through Education” to “Choose to Build Diverse Friendships to “Choose to Discover the Truth about God”. This book’s premise is that decisions made during the teen years can be critical in determining the trajectory of the rest of your life. Many life decisions that may seem inconsequential at the time can result in tragic endings.

Both Chapman and Shuler offer sound advice, largely gleaned from their own life experiences. Their hope is that this book can help young men avoid the mistakes they have made, as well as to avoid unwise decisions that they have seen others make. The “Ask Yourself” questions at the end of each chapter let the reader pause and reflect on choices they have made or will make that will affect their lives. Although this book is geared towards teens, I would personally recommend this book for older teens, rather than tweens or younger teens due to some of the content. Choose Greatness is a great resource for young men who are about to embark into the journey of adulthood.

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What does your family usually talk about when sitting around the dinner table? I wish that I could say that my family talks about “deep” topics, but usually it is just everyone giving an update about their day. That is not a bad thing, but sometimes it is nice to have more meaningful discussions.

If…What If is a book filled with 365 devotions that families can go through together. Each devotion is one page long and contains thought-provoking questions, a Bible passage, a short commentary and a message offering hope. There is also a weekly recap that summarizes the past week’s topics and poses more personal questions and prayer topics.

I know that as our kids are fast approaching the teen years, the time to develop the communication lines is now. Being intentional with the limited time that we have together is important. A book like If…What If can help raise weighty topics that might not otherwise be discussed. I like how the book also intersperses more lighthearted and humorous questions throughout so that kids will stay engaged. The devotions are designed to bring families closer together, as well as to God. I cannot wait to bring this book on our upcoming road trip when we will have endless hours to talk!

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Are you familiar with the concept of living sent? In the new book Love Where You Live, Shauna Pilgreen defines “living sent” as follows:

Living sent is recognizing God’s intimate involvement in our lives, whether we are in a new zip code or have been in the same one for years. Living sent aligns our uniqueness to His activity for the purpose of making Him visible to our community.

Pilgreen encourages her readers to really examine the place they call home and to realize that God has a purpose for them there. Most of the book focuses on her family’s move from a rural area to the heart of San Francisco. They made the move because they felt called for her pastor-husband to start a church in the City.

Having lived in San Francisco for three years as a law student, I could relate to many of the Pilgreen’s stories. The neighborhood I lived in was one of the roughest in the City. I would walk back to my apartment as fast as I could, try to avoid eye contact with strangers, and feel relieved to close the door behind me. Opening my window for fresh air meant subjecting myself to constant sirens and people randomly yelling on the streets. I really could not imagine myself living there with young kids like the author and her husband. However, what is really inspiring about Pilgreen’s story is how she intentionally chose to engage with and serve her challenging surroundings. Yes, their family suffered some unwanted consequences in putting themselves in such a vulnerable position. However, it is clear that the relationships and community that they built as a result far outweigh any setbacks.

Reading this book caused me to think about my current location. The neighborhood we live in now is non-threatening, and much quieter and calmer than a big city. Yet, how much have I made an effort to reach out to my neighbors and build relationships? If I am honest, I would say very little. I still have an individualistic mentality of wanting to feel safe in the privacy of my own home. I make friends with those I have regular interactions with, but I am afraid to take a risk to reach out to those who may be “different”, lonely or secluded. We have the opportunity to show God’s love every day, but how often do we make excuses and let those opportunities pass us by? Love Where You Live is filled with inspirational ideas for serving others and creating connections so that we can live out God’s purpose in our everyday lives.

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With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, it is natural for married couples to think about the health of their relationship with their spouse. In 10 Choices Successful Couples Make, Dr. Ron Welch outlines ten key choices that strengthen marriages. These choices include communicating well, forgiving, being unselfish and not taking your partner for granted. Dr. Welch explains each of the ten choices with real life (anonymous!) illustrations taken from his own counseling practice. He also offers concrete strategies that couples can implement in order to make the right choices. Love that lasts a lifetime is not something that just happens if you marry the “right” person. Successful relationships require commitment and at times, work.

I certainly felt convicted reading about how our attitudes and communication styles can make it difficult to have a thriving marriage. This book helps couples identify issues in their marriage before they become insurmountable. 10 Choices Successful Couples Make would benefit engaged couples and newlyweds, as well as those who have been married for decades!