Dametra Cafe
Short post today. Saturday night we ate dinner at Dametra Cafe in Carmel.
We had reservations at 5:00, but when we walked past the restaurant around 4:50, the restaurant was packed with jovial women celebrating a private bridal shower. It was pretty clear that they would not be cleared out in ten minutes. We ended up not being seated until 5:30, but it was ok because we just walked around and window shopped.
The restaurant itself is small, maybe 10-12 tables? It is however, quite popular. They were completely booked that night, and I have never seen a restaurant turn away so many people. The staff was extremely polite and friendly. I don’t think I’ve seen a human being smile more than our waiter. They brought us complimentary hummus as an appetizer, maybe as an apology for our late seating. Had I known that, I probably wouldn’t have ordered the sampler, which included hummus. In retrospect, I should have ordered a gyro plate, because n was gobbling it up!
As we were finishing our meal, we were serenaded with a lively rendition of a song which went, “Besa me…Besa me mucho!” (Kiss me, Kiss me much!). The entire restaurant joined in by the end, and it was lots of fun. 
To cap it all off, they also gave us complimentary baklava. By this time, I had taken the kids outside because they were a bit restless. However, it was probably good they didn’t see the dessert, since both k and n are allergic to nuts anyway. (D came out to watch them and let me go back in to eat my piece). I can see why they have four and half stars with over 440 reviews on Yelp!
Camping in Big Sur
Friday night we decided to do camping “lite” at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park. 
Due to limited space in our car, we decided to only pack our tent, sleeping bags, blankets, mats, and pillows. We bought our dinner at Big Sur Deli, a mile or so south of the park. I would recommend the Cuban pork sandwich. It is not a traditional cubano, in that it is not flattened, but it has a kick and they warm it up for you. The pre-made turkey sandwich was just ok, a little soggy.
This ended up being our best camping trip to date, due to the gorgeous grounds and quiet atmosphere. Our spot was near the entrance of the park, and it felt amazingly empty for Labor Day weekend. Although all of the spaces were booked, they were far apart enough where we could barely see/hear our neighbors. (I think the spaces near the river are more popular, but more crowded and noisy). Our site was filled with redwood trees, and the air was so clean. D asked me whether I would prefer it to be three degrees warmer or colder, and I could not decide because it was that perfect. (At night it was cold, as to be expected, but we were snug in our tent).

Camping will be even more fun once n doesn’t wake up crying in the middle of the night. Still waiting for that to happen!
The next morning we packed up and headed north on Highway 1. Both Friday and Saturday the kids and I took Dramamine, and it seemed to work. We made a stop at the famous Bixby Bridge, which you always see in car commercials.
Driving Big Sur was an adventure, and a beautiful one at that.
Labor Day Weekend: Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park & Nepenthe
We are back from our long weekend getaway to Big Sur, Monterey and Pebble Beach. We made it home in record time: just over 6 hours. No traffic in L.A.–yay!
But, back to the beginning. We left at 5:30 a.m. in the morning on Friday. I thought we were so prepared this time…D had cleaned the car out and we packed almost everything the night before. Unfortunately, in cleaning out the car, we failed to realize that we had left the cords for both our ipod AND the DVD player back at home! Argh! Let’s just say that we heard k and n sing “She’s a Grand Ol’ Flag” one too many times this past weekend.
It was a nice change of pace to go up the 101/1 instead of the 5. We made many stops, of course, but our first sight seeing stop was Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park. The main attraction was McWay Falls, which was pretty spectacular. It is a nice easy hike and k did it without complaint.

McWay Falls, “the only major California waterfall to tumble in the Pacific”.

(n has some ink on his face from coloring in the car.)

I would say Julia Pfeiffer is definitely worth a stop and the $10 parking (we used our pass). One tip is that the parking is self-parking, so bring small bills. We encountered more than one party in search of change.
It is illegal to walk down to the beach where the waterfall is. However, someone did, and left this message:
Interpret that as you wish…
Our next stop was for lunch at Nepenthe. In preparation, I had read this book: 
I enjoyed reading about the history of the restaurant, and the pictures are beautiful. It made me anticipate our trip even more.
It was quite foggy, so the view was limited, but by the end of our lunch, it had cleared up some. We chose the inside seating because it was more comfortable for the kids, but the building is open on both ends, with large windows, so there was still the outdoor feel.
We ordered the famous Ambrosia Burger and a French Dip, along with a “half” order of fries. (The full order cost $8, but the half order cost $6.50. The half was plenty for us, though).


At around $15 each, these were pricey lunch entrees, but the view/experience justifies at least part of the cost. Next time, we’ll probably try Big Sur Bakery for lunch, since we ended up not eating there for breakfast the next day as planned.
The grounds of the restaurant have a magical quality:


Our trip was off to a good start!
Redd (& more)
For lunch we went to Redd. I was a bit apprehensive since they don’t have a reputation for being very kid-friendly. When D’s dad called for reservations, they told him that they don’t have high chairs. That was fine, because n doesn’t really use high chairs anymore, anyway. However, our waiter could not have been friendlier. He told us that there was no children’s menu, but that the kitchen could make a simple pasta, or chicken wings, etc. I asked for a pasta with red sauce for k. When the waiter presented our table with the calamari appetizer we ordered, k exclaimed, “onion rings”! The waiter smiled, and said that the kitchen could do onion rings for her, if she liked. I said, “maybe just a few” but he came back with a full order, which we all ended up sharing. I can see why they wouldn’t want to necessarily encourage kids to come to their restaurant, but I found them very accommodating nonetheless.

Redd’s fancy rendition of pork buns. Not being a fan of pork belly fat, I had to take some fat off. However, I really like this dish…very flavorful.

D ordered the short ribs. In fact, D made a category of “best short ribs” on his List, in anticipation of our visit.

Loved the modern interior. Clean lines, lots of light.
We walked a bit in Yountville. There were lots of people out and about. Unfortunately, the line for Bouchon Bakery was out the door, so we skipped it. We did come across this public art installation that I thought was cute:
D’s brother’s family joined us for dinner. We ate at Bistro Don Giovanni, one of D’s family’s favorites in Napa. Funnily, D noticed that there was a group of four that we had seen earlier at Redd during lunch. I guess they have a similar good taste in food!

Silk handkerchiefs–housemade pasta with pesto.
Unfortunately, they only serve their famed hamburger on Fridays and Saturdays at lunch. Maybe next time.

Waiting with the restless kids at the fountain outside.
We went back to D’s parents house for dessert.
Tiramisu cake.

Reading time with their auntie.
It was a quick trip, but it was nice to see everyone.
A Morning in Napa
After the wedding, it took us two hours (with traffic) to drive to Napa to visit D’s parents house. In the morning, we went to Oxbow Market for breakfast. More specifically, we went to The Model Bakery. D remembered that we had seen this place featured on The Best Thing I Ever Ate, where Michael Chiarello recommended their english muffins. We tried one, and I can definitely say it was the best english muffin I have ever had. (Ask for it toasted, along with jam and butter). 
(It was so good, we almost finished it before I could take a picture!)
Also, the prices were a little more reasonable than Bouchon Bakery, making it a solid breakfast choice. We also checked out the smallish farmer’s market which is held on Saturday mornings.
Afterward, D’s parents babysat the kids while D and I did a mini-hike at Bothe-Napa state park. I don’t think we mentioned this on our blog yet, but we bought a CA state park annual pass. D is determined to get his money’s worth, so we figured we should check it out.

We walked until we came upon this cemetary, and then turned back.

There was a small group of houses for the groundskeepers. This was one of the more “lived in” homes.
On the way back we decided to stop at another CA state park site, the Grist Mill.
Can you see the mill? We weren’t sure if our pass was good for the mill itself, so we just walked around.

It was nice to have a little time to ourselves, so that was our “date night” of the month.
When we came back, we met up with the kids/grandparents at the park.
k and n really liked the climbing wall. 
n surprised us by climbing all the way up by himself (with D close behind, just in case).
San Jo–You Know!
We had one night in San Jose and tried to make the most of it. We actually used to hang out in San Jose during D’s Silicon Valley days, but I don’t remember much of it. For dinner we drove to Japantown, which is really more like Japanstreet. We made a quick stop into the manju shop. It is amazing to me that places like these can stay in business. 
n making another face.
We ate at Gombei, which felt like pretty authentic, Japanese home-cooking. 
The Gombei Special–$10 D had his favorite oyako donburi.
For dessert we walked down to Banana Crepe. Although they do serve crepes, we went for the shave ice. This place has good reviews, but no one mentioned the LONG wait. There were only a couple of orders ahead of us, but it seriously took longer than our Japanese food. Maybe they were just short-handed that day? 
k kept herself entertained by looking at all the monkeys on the ceiling.

The shave ice was good (mango/passion fruit), but not worth the wait, in my opinion.
For breakfast we walked to Philz Coffee. We tried the Iced Mint Mojito coffee and ordered a hot chocolate for the kids. We asked for them to cool the hot chocolate a bit, and they put a huge block of ice in it, which cooled it down a bit too much. I liked the mint mojito drink, it was very unique. D wasn’t as much a fan because he 1. doesn’t like iced coffee as much as hot, 2. doesn’t really like mint. 
Look at all that mint!
k was getting stuffy in the cafe so we walked across the street to San Jose University. 
The kids let off some steam. Or maybe it was the hot chocolate.
Afterward we made a stop at A Taste of Paris, which was next store to Philz. The owners are from France. We weren’t sure what to get, but once we saw the guy making crepes for other people, we had to try one.
We ordered a ham and cheese crepe. The guy before us ordered a bacon-brie crepe. Wow, that looked rich.
We also bought a baguette to go. We ate some (warm from the oven, yum!), and I stuck the rest in my purse and we snacked on it all morning. 
Regarding our hotel, we stayed at the Sainte Claire, where the wedding we were attending was held. We liked its historic, classy feel.
It is connected to an Il Fornaio restaurant.
The ceiling in our bathroom was really pretty:
My favorite was the bar of verbena L’Occitane soap provided in the bathroom. It smelled so good! That one definitely came home with us. 🙂
Happy Hollow Park & Zoo
This past weekend we visited the Bay Area. We went to a wedding in San Jose and then visited D’s family in Napa. The drive to San Jose took six hours. Not too bad, except that k threw up. (I think I passed along my car-sickness tendencies to her). n reciprocated by throwing up on the way home. Lovely. Needless to say, we made many stops along the way. We encountered a newly remodeled rest stop that was pretty nice:

We ate lunch at Huong Lan in San Jose. I had read good yelp reviews on their banh mi. We had grilled pork and bbq chicken. I liked the pork better, although be warned, it comes with peanuts! The bbq chicken was ok, except the bright pink color was a little disconcerting. We also shared an order of spring rolls with really good dipping sauce and an order of mini egg rolls. 
Afterward we made the short drive over to Happy Hollow, which I would compare to Adventure City in Orange County. However, the grounds of Happy Hollow were recently refurbished, and much nicer than Adventure City. It also felt more spacious. Happy Hollow also has a mini zoo. Adventure City wins in the rides department though, since they have a better variety. The prices are also comparable…$12 at Happy Hollow v. $14 at Adventure City; parking is $10 at Happy Hollow, free at Adventure City.
There is a cool, newly opened bridge connecting the parking lot to the park.


At the entrance there is a merry-go-round with unique animals to ride on.




n is in a stage where he likes to make funny faces at the camera.
Next, we went to the zoo portion. Mostly small animals, but more interesting than a petting zoo. 


k was anxious to go on the rides. n really liked the rides too. When k was his age, she didn’t want to go on anything. I guess that’s one of the differences between those two.
I think they enjoyed being able to ride together on this one:
The look of sheer joy on their faces was so heart-warming.
The longest line was for Danny the Dragon, a ride for the whole family. We had to wait one and a half cycles, probably about 15 minutes. Not bad at all, but it was getting hot, so D and n stood in line for us while k and I rested in the shade. 
We thought we lost k’s sunglasses, so I filled out a report at Lost & Found. They turned up later in D’s cargo shorts pocket back at the hotel. All in all, it was a nice visit, probably about 2.5 hours total.
Final Japan Post
It’s been over a month since we returned from our trip, and I am finally writing our last post. It has taken a lot of time, but I am glad I did it, because, sadly, memories do fade away. I never scrapbooked our Vancouver trip in 2005 (and we didn’t have our blog back then) and now I just have a pile of pictures with vague recollections.
Anyway, back to Japan. Before I left, someone told me that once she visited Japan, she felt like she understood more about her family and herself. Her parents were actually from Japan, whereas I’m fourth-generation, so I didn’t think that would really apply to me. However, while I was there, I did find myself “relating” to parts of the culture in a strange way. For instance, inefficiency really bothers me, and as soon as we arrived at Narita airport, I could tell how efficiency is really a priority in Japan. Granted, it was a lot less crowded in Narita than LAX, but the difference between how things are handled was very apparent. Also, I have also had an inexplicable love for containers, stationery (paper, pens, etc.) and cute things (e.g. Hello Kitty). Therefore, I felt right at home shopping among the crowds at Daiso, Kiddyland, etc. It was amazing to me that the Loft could be so crowded on a weekday night, full of people looking at writing instruments. Regarding cuteness, it was everywhere, like at Mister Donut, as shown earlier, and on the street in a construction zone:
I also enjoyed the attention to detail. Like on one of the trains, there were seats reserved for handicapped, pregnant, those with infants and the elderly. They had cute signs, but also, the seats were upholstered in fabric with cartoon outlines depicting those categories of people. I should have taken a picture, but didn’t.
Some other random observations.
When it was raining, some stores had these umbrella-bag contraptions to make it easy to bag your own umbrella and prevent it from leaking everywhere.
Vending machines are literally everywhere. We had fun trying new drinks out. 

Pocari Sweat, anyone? Tastes like Gatorade.
Our favorite was C.C. Lemon.
70 lemons worth of Vitamin C in every bottle! The Japanese are also seemingly obsessed with recycling. Every place we went to had separate receptacles for “combustible” and “non-combustible”.
It took the longest time for D and I to get used to walking on the left side of the street. Walking on the right is just something we take for granted. It was also weird to see the crosswalk guy walking to the left instead of the right. (See picture below):
The addresses in Tokyo are basically of no help. It is frustrating, since you would think that the Japanese people would demand some sort of ordered system. The streets in Kyoto are easier to navigate, but some of the names are a bit daunting. 
Now, that’s a mouthful.
All of the public bathrooms I went to were remarkably clean. Some even had a toilet brush, along with instructions on how to clean the toilet area yourself. I couldn’t help but think that Japanese people must be grossed out when they go to most public bathrooms in the U.S.
Most places we went to had high-tech Western style toilets. However, there were a few places where I had to use the infamous pit toilet. 
The most challenging experience was using one on a moving train!
Finally, we had fun looking at all the different snack foods. (My sister writes more about these on her blog). Some we bought were Kit Kats, including Hachiya tea flavor, citrus flavor, and a special dark-crunchy flavor:
D’s co-worker said this box states it is for “Adults only”. I guess kids don’t like dark chocolate?
Meiji Mango Chocolate (the kids loved this).
Crunky Ball Nude. 
Gotta love that name.
We also liked Chip Star, which is like Pringles, but comes in a consomme flavor.
So, I kind of veered off topic, but just to wrap up, Japan is a fascinating country, and we will never forget our experience there. We would encourage anyone who is debating whether to go to go for it. I was worried about not knowing the language and navigating the transportation system. We literally used two words: “Arigato” (thank you) and “Hi” (yes) and got along just fine. We did, however, do tons of research beforehand, which was immensely helpful. But we actually enjoy doing stuff like that. You should see the notebook we put together full of directions, reservations, etc. Hey, that might be another post for the future.
Kyoto: Last Day
Wow…we finally reached our last day. We first walked back toward Kyoto station to grab some breakfast. We were eyeing Donut Planet, but ended up just down the way at DeliFrance. We shared a cafe latte, cranberry bun and egg/bacon bun. 
After we bought our food, they brought out green tea churros! D had to try one, but it turned out not too special. 
Outside, people were lined up, waiting for something. We tried to ask the person working at the bakery if she knew what they were waiting for. We couldn’t really understand her, but I think she said it was a video game doll, or something like that.
Must have been one special doll!
Afterward we walked to Higashi Hongan-ji Temple.

Next we walked to Nishi Hongan-ji Temple.
While the buildings themselves were impressive, I am sure they would have been a lot more interesting if they had spiritual significance to us. Obviously, they didn’t, so I wasn’t too sad that we were only able to visit two. Also, both of them were fairly close to our ryokan, so it wasn’t out of our way.
Mid-morning snack:
More green tea ice cream!
After picking up some souvenir snacks at Circle K, we picked up our bags and walked back to Kyoto station. We shopped a little, and then ate at Wako Tonkatsu, located in Eat Paradise, a group of restaurants in Kyoto station.
Tonkatsu (fried pork cutlet) was the last food item on my list of “foods to eat in Japan”.

This was also our most expensive meal of the trip. I would say the price for lunch was reasonable, though (we just ate pretty cheap everywhere else). I think the set was around $15 and it came with free refills of miso soup, cabbage and rice. (We didn’t even have room for any refills, though). The tonkatsu was just how I expected…light and crispy. We tried the leaner cut and fattier cut and I preferred the leaner, even though it was not as juicy. It was a satisfying meal to end our trip.
We took the shinkansen back to Tokyo/Narita and boarded our plane without any problems. The plane home was a lot more full, so we had another person in our aisle. The trip was also a lot shorter (due to headwinds) and we weren’t served as much food, but it was still plenty. We are very grateful that we had the opportunity to travel, and especially grateful that my parents were able to take care of the kids. I think I need one more post to discuss my observations of Japan and post some random pictures that didn’t really fit into any of our previous posts. Stay tuned.
Kyoto: Capsule Ryokan and Station
We were anxious to get back to our room to change into dry socks. We took a crowded city bus and had to stand up. (Surprisingly, this was probably the most crowded transportation situation we faced during the entire week). D and I were talking to each other (can’t remember about what) when a younger guy asked where we were from and whether we had come to Japan before or after the earthquake. Turns out that he was Chinese, but a university student in Japan studying engineering. He spoke English very well and we ended up talking all the way back to our ryokan. He asked us our names so he could look us up on Facebook. When we asked his name, he responded, “My Chinese, Japanese or English name?” Haha. Anyway, Bell, if you’re out there, hope you’re enjoying reading about our Japan experience.
I first read about the Capsule Ryokan on TripAdvisor. It was the highest rated hotel in Kyoto! While it is certainly not for everyone, it met our needs just fine. However, if the kids had come with us, it would be a different story.
First of all, it was tiny. The room was literally the size of the bed plus one foot on the side and just enough room for the shower and toilet.
This was actually the larger-sized ryokan style room. They also have capsules, which are basically enclosed beds. I wonder whether I would feel claustrophobic in one of those.
We had to marvel at the efficiency of the use of space, though. 
Under-bed storage.
Another reason why this place would not be for everyone…the shower was literally at the foot of the bed.
I liked the high-tech look of it. The toilet was also cool. The cover automatically opens when you open the door and closes when you shut the door. It also had all of the heating elements/sprays/jets/flushing noises that you could ever want.
The room had a wall-mounted t.v.
It really made us think about how little room one actually needs and how much we live in excess.
For dinner we walked to Kyoto Station, which has tons of shopping and restaurants.
At the top of these stairs is a “Ramen-town” with a bunch of ramen restaurants that represent different parts of Japan.
It was difficult to distinguish between the different restaurants, so we just chose one that looked fairly busy/popular. We bought our tickets at the vending machine outside (with some difficulty) and enjoyed steaming bowls of ramen. Interestingly, it had a more beefy, rather than porky flavor.
We were also excited to see that there was a Mister Donut at the station.
Love this kawaii ad campaign!
Strawberry and blueberry. The blueberry was much better.
There are so many varieties, I wanted to try them all. After being there a couple of times, I would definitely recommend the Pon de Ring and anything with a filling or cream. The plain ones were a bit too plain.
Afterward we walked to the Kyoto Granvia Hotel, which is connected to the station. We went to the top floor where there is a nice view (for free). 
Finally, we did a little shopping. D bought some omiyage for the people at work (rolled green tea cookies). I was curious about these won-ton shaped mochi treats. I picked sakura, which was interesting. However, I think I probably would have enjoyed the chocolate better. 
Too bad they didn’t have a variety pack!
So, that was our exciting Kyoto night-time adventure. We watched a little Japanese t.v. and were ready for our last day.
































